When you do the right thing, you always win…
What’s the right thing you ask? Well I am glad you asked. The right thing is going to be different for everyone and winning is also going to look different for everyone. The awesome thing is it all is based on your opinion of these two things AND WHO YOU ARE. Yup that’s right your authentic self. Your purpose in life is going to be different, just like your morals and values are also going to differ from person to person. The right thing for you is going to be completely different than the right thing for someone else.
Here’s the awesome thing. When you are you, you will always attract the right people into your life and when you are you, you will always win. There are thousands of people in any given industry but there is success for everyone. Why? Because everyone is so different.
EX: I am going to attract different people into my business as customers and business builders and I am also going to deliver and place emphasis on information differently all depending on what’s important to me.
If you are in a make up company but you hate winged liner, you probably won’t attract as many people into your business that have all the love for winged liner or those that want to to be able to master it. The reason?! You will probably not be demo’ing it, talking about it, wearing it or even mentioning it because you aren’t a fan, and that’s OK!
Just as, if you have a kid’s line in your company but you don’t have any kids, how important is that demographic going to be for your sales? Most likely, it isn’t going to be a vertical that is booming in your business because it isn’t part of your authentic self and life in that moment. That’s not to say you can’t fall in love with winged liner or have kids in the future and that all change for you.
Guess what?! In both examples you aren’t selling to EVERYONE and it’s ok that you are missing out on some demographics that just aren’t ones that fit into your life right now. My favorite saying and something I really believe that has lead to my success is, I would rather be 1 persons shot of vodka, than everyone’s cup of tea.
Attracting the people that I have something in common with are going to make work and life FUN. I look at it as they are going to be my people and if I can be my authentic self always I am going to attract those people in my life. I got into network marketing and direct sales because I wanted community and to make friends so why on earth wouldn’t I want to attract people that I would enjoy being around and that I have something in common with?!
What else is right…. Well being positive in your life and business. Sure it’s easier to be negative and in reality some people are just more naturally negative. It’s a skill to be positive and see the good in things. However, think about who you are wanting to attract. Do you want to attract those that are negative to work with you or be your customers or do you think it would be better to work on being positive so that you can work and sell to those positive and amazing people?
I have more people that message me to try to recruit me because of who I am and how I act while no one is watching or because of the way I am me on social platforms. People want to be around me because I am me, no bs. That’s a great feeling when you can get to that point in life. Everyone can be there! So stop trying to be someone else and be you. You bring something to life that no one else has and when you can really embrace YOU, you will always win!
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